basically the same as that question about the friend being r
Question Posted Tuesday June 27 2006, 10:11 pm
OK well like the other person said (the one who started off saying they disagreed with some weird comments about you, and then went into her question about her friend like calling her out on stuff but in a weird way.. im just trying to get you to see which one im talking about haha)
ok so i feel like i do that alot. Like i call people out on stuff. I don't mean to and I don't like it when I do. Actually I don't usually do stuff likethat. But Sometimes I get really annoyed with like everything about my best friend and it al builds up. It would only last like one day. So I'll ignore how annoyed I am and then finally I'll break down and just say one really mean thing but usually disguised as a back-handed compliment. It's so manipulative and rude and immature. I don't know why I do it and I'm not sure really what I'm asking. But I geuss i just want your oppinion on why i do this? Or what i can do instead? I hope you don't think I'm really horrible. I just wanted to give another point of view in a situation like this.
i know how you feel, i also do this some times. some times i just get so annoyed with a friend that i feel like i have to scream at her to get her to stop. and i do some times. i scream and tell her things that i shouldnt, but i still love her to death.
maybe you should talk to some of your friends, and just be like. hey, i'm sorry if i've been yelling at you, or i do yell at you, things have just been aggravation me a lot lately. and no mater what i say to you, you're still a wonderful friend and i love you.
or when you notice something about this friend just be like. hey, i love you, but could you stop doing ... and then say what you're thinking. cause this is your best friend and you should be able to tell her anything. and it'll only make your friendship stronger if you tell her whats on your mind.
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