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does my manager like me?!?!?! cont'd
thanks so much for your reply!!! I am just wondering, when we do go eat dinner, should I ask any questions?... I wanna know if he is treating me specially... and hopefully confirm whtether or not he does like me or not... How should i ask the questions?
and thanks for reminding of the cautions. I will keep those things in mind for sure...
I am just wondering... since you are a guy, what signs do you give a girl to show that you like her?... Also, would you get jealous if you saw the girl you like talking with another very good looking guy?? because one of my friend is going to visit me at work... i wanna see if I can confirm whether he likes me or not from his reaction to my friend...
Thanks again for everything!! you are VERY helpful!! =)
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First of all, at dinner be confident but not cocky. Smile and say somthing like, "So, do you reward all your pretty, young, top sales girls like this?" and see how he replies.
As far as your friend, just introduce him to the guy you like (your manager) as a "friend". That should get the point across. He should be fine with that. If he's not, and he shows any sign of jealousy this early in a relationship, it's not a good sign. It may mean he's not mature enough and there could definatly be problems at work should you pursue the relationship.
Personally, if I'm interested in a woman, I will just open up and tell her. I might say something like, "You have such a great personality, I am looking forward to getting to know you better"
Then I'll comment on any other things I notice like, I love the way your eyes sparkle when you laugh. Things like that. He may be less open though, especially since there is a work relationship at risk. You just have to watch him and go by instinct, or you could just come right out an ask him. Nothing wrong with saying at the end of the evening. I had a good time, Is this really a reward for my sales, or would you like to do this again? Being open and mature is the best way to handle something like this.
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