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lauren and i probems!!!!!!!
ok so i have this wonderful best friend we were always together and we would always call eachother. we planned to be best friends forever. she was the closest friend i ever had. i recently lost 2 of my other best friends over some bitch so lauren is all i have. ever since xummer started she has been hangin out with this girl tiffany all the time, she doesnt call me anymore and everytime we talk it turns into a fight. i tried talking to her it didnt work. she doesnt answer her phone to me anymore. help i dont know what to do i cant lose her.
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well, sometimes fate turns out differently than you plan for. i think i was in laurens place before, i just got sick of constantly always hanging out with the same one person. so possibly, you should space out your "get togethers"(for lack of better word), and not seem clingy or attached to her. even if you are, sometimes if you make that obvious to the other person it pisses them off or turns them off as far as wanting to be firnds with you goes. people need space, that's natural. let her know how much this friendship means to you, and if she's a worth-wile friend she'll recongnize that and not blow you off. hope i helped =)
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Maybe you could find someone that you really trust, and ask them to tell Lauren what's up. She might be getting offensive because she probably thinks that you are getting jealous and clingy (I'm not calling you that.) If you can find some way to reach her, just tell her exactly what you said in your questin. That you're afraid of losing her as a best friend. True best friend girl talk is always good for people. I'm sure she has some free time to hang out with you. Maybe you can hang out with her and Tiffany? (unless tiffany is ,like, a total bitch.) I'm sure if you just explain to her what's going on I'm sure she will understand.
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P.S.- sorry about your two other friends :/
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