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my friends act like they hate me somteimes
okay first of all let me just say that whoever the hell wrote all of those nasty comments about your thighs being too big or your nose being too high need to get over themselves. you go to my school so i've seen you around and you are so gorgeous justine...i think its so awesome how you are confident with your body and who you are because in a life like this with all of the "models too look up to" its hard. i don't know how you do it, but i admire you for that.
anyway, i have this best friend and she seems to be having moodswings alot lately...like one minute she will be all happy and ine with me but then the next she will make a joke out of something i do that bothers her. at first i just kind of blew it off and laughed at it because i realized i was being stupid, but its not like i can take any of it back and i dont like how she randomly calls me annoying or calls me out on something i do wrong. when i tried confronting her about it it turned into a fight. later i tried explaining to her that if i came across as rude i didn't mean it like that at all blah blah blah but she still does it. she is one of my best friends and i love her to death...i just don't understand why she can't be happy with me.
thanks in advance
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thank you, that's really one of the nicest things some one has said to me, you are really a very sweet person.
about you friend.. i know you said that you've talked to her about it .. and that did not turn out too good.
next time that she does this, right there.. just be like why did you say that?
this might be a stage she's going through or maybe she's trying to tell you something.
I had a friend that used to do that to me .. and it made me feel like she thought she was better then me. and i hated that feeling. so i just called her out on it, we were in public and i was like why are you doing this?! you act like my best friend one sec. then the next you are my worst enemy. i can not stand it.
well, it turns out she didnt change and i just moved on, because i was not going to be friends with some one who treated me like crap.
i would talk to this friend, one last time. and tell her she's got to stop doing this or else you'll have to stop being such good friends for a while. and see if see changes
best of luck, let me know what happens ♥
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