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my night in shining armor turned out to be a loser in alumin
i had one boyfriend about 3 yrs ago.
he was my dream guy! he was athletic.. funny.. smart... and we were PERFECT. or so i thought! 'my prince in shining armor turned out to be a loser in aluminum foil' and matt dumped me to go out with his ex! ive had other boyfriends since but ive never trusted any of them because im still not over this one guy! it drives me CRAZY! ive dumped 3 guys because of him... because you cant have a boyfriend if you cant trust them. matt tried to get back together with me... but i was afraid of him making me experience the pain again.. and i dumped him. he was REALLY mad because he said he had changed and all of that bull. how could i have believed him? i went out with 6 girls b4 he asked to get back together with me! but still. i want to like other guys, but i cant get over what matt did to me! it was my first boyfriend, and i really loved that guy. he ruined it. for a while he ruined me. for a while i was emo (no cutting.. just black stuff). and when i finally got over it i couldnt love any other guys for long. help me! i dont want to break any more hearts, hearts that are undeserved to be broken. sorry this was so long! <333
love,
xxl0vergirlxx
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seriously he wasnt even worth it. aa guy that dumps uu for another girl is undeserving of a girl like you. dont worry about relationships right away and take time to get over him first. ii know its hard to forget ur first love. but in time you'll realize that it wasnt true love and he wasnt worth your love.
no one expects you to trust them fully in the beginning of a relationship. so date some guys longer than you have and hopefully that trust will grow.
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First off... that has to be the best headline I have ever seen for a question. Props for the great imagination. Ok, so your problem is needing help to get over your ex. It's not until then that you can be able to sort through the Knight & Shinning Armor's & The losers in Aluminum Foil. Here is a couple quotes I love and they help me keep a reality check on Love.
"Giving up doesn't always mean your weak, it just means your strong enough to let go."
"NEVER BLAME A NEW LOVE FOR THINGS AN OLD ONE DID."
It's ok to feel angry, just so long as you don't let it consume you.
Spend time with your friends, take up a hobby and take good care of yourself. Try to find happiness. Find constructive ways to express your anger and other feelings (poetry, art, kickboxing?) I took kickboxing last year and whenever I felt angry or frustrated about something, it felt so great to kick the $hit out of the punching bag.
Forgiveness will come in time.
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