Hi there, well, basically I just wanted to know if this guy that I fancy likes me back. You see, he's a waiter in my local pub and he's quite good friends with my dad. Now, I started liking him about a week ago. He talked to me for the first time. Actually, it wasn't like a proper conversation, he just said 'alrite, trouble?' I know, it's wasn't much but we both laughed. Anyway, I keep catching him glancing at me. Like one time, I went to the bar (to help my mum with the drinks) and as he was getting something behind the bar, he looked up at me and had this expression on his face like he was gonna say something. I just walked away because I wasn't sure what he was doing, I wasn't gonna stand there and look like a total idiot, waiting for him to talk to me but he had this look on his face like he was happy to see me or something. Now, he's caught me staring at him and I've caught him staring at me. I just get the feeling he likes me, you know, woman's instinct maybe but I don't want to base everything on what I feel because I've been wrong about this stuff in the past but this guy is older than guys I usually waste my time on. He's not a silly little high school boy, he's about 22 I reckon. So please help me out, I fancy the pants off him but I don't know where to start. I'm kind of shy when it comes to things like this and I'm getting the impression that he is too. What should I do? Should I tell my dad and maybe he'll tell him how I feel? Thanks.
DefinedEyes answered Monday June 26 2006, 9:36 am: Well if he's twenty two, careful.
And the only way to know if someone likes you is to ask him. It sounds like he possibly could like you, but then again it sounds like he's being polite and friendly. You know?
Start talking to him, you'll be able to clarify things in your head then.
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