I'm 26/f and I'm still a virgin. I started my period when I was 10, but it has never been regular. Sometimes I'll go months without having one, and sometimes it'll be really heavy and other times I'll just spot a little. I've never been to a gynocologist. That's just how it's done in my family, no girl goes to the gynocologist until they either get pregnant or go on birth control. Since I'm not sexually active and I don't plan to go on losing my virginity until my wedding night, there's never been a reason for me to see a gynocologist. I guess I should also mention that I am extremely overweight, which I'm working on losing. I have a feeling that my weight has a lot to do with it, because I had lost alot of weight and my periods became more regular. But I had to go through shoulder surgery and had some steroid injections and I gained alot of weight. Anyway, I guess what I'm trying to ask is can my irregular periods mean that I won't be able to have kids. I'm really scared because I love kids. I really want to be a mother some day. Sorry this is so long.
However, I do know others who had very irregular periods and thought that they couldn't get pregnant, and they did, even without medical intervention. Their odds were lower, but it was not impossible.
A nurse that I worked with was over weight and had irregular periods and wanted to get pregnant so the gyn put her on birth control pills for a year in attempts to regulate her cycle, then she had to go off the pill for 3 months and use another method. On the 4th month she monitored her basal temperature each morning and discovered that she was in fact ovulating, and she got pregnant. She has three kids now, so obviously if weight is a factor it can be corrected in some cases.
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