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Flirting?
Hello,
I was just browsing through all the columnists using a search engine and after reading some of your answers, you seem pretty rational. I am not asking a "specific" question per se. I would just like some input on this. Ok, now, there are all kinds of websites that tell you how to tell if someone is flirting with you or if they like you, but, what I would like to know is, how can you tell if a friends husband is attracted to you? They have to be more discreet about it if they are into you, naturally, because they are married and can't be open about it. So, are there any signs I should be aware of? Sometimes, I am not sure if it is flirting or just being friendly. Thanks in advance for any input.
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Well, you definately want to see how much he talks to you to start off with. If he doesn't talk much to you, he definatetly is not flirting. The second sign to look for is how he talks. Is he teasing you, or being serious? Check his voice tones, and his actions. The less serious he is, the more likely he is flirting. Check for signs of nervousness. Shaky hands, shifty eyes, not being able to look you in the face (Or staring at you), etc. are usually signs of flirting. But one thing to be on the lookout for is when you are somewhere else. If he is looking at you, and you turn your head and he turns his, it is probably a flirt.
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A friend's huband...that is tricky!
I personally wouldn't worry about it if they're married because even if he is, you don't want to be the "homewrecker".
but if you must know look for any unexplained acts of kindness/friendlyness. if he stops by to see you without his wife, talks to you a little too much, touches you or seems to have to often. it really depends on what he is like to begin with or around his wife. a change in his behavior would be the dead giveaway. but like i said, don't worry about it unless he tries to actually make a move on you. <3
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This is a hard situation in which you don't want to be too foward in case he's just being friendly and then that might screw some things up. On your part you can just make sure you're clear in that your not attracted to him and that it isn't any fun when he does something like that. Some signs that he might be hitting on you is touching you an excessive amount like on the hand or shoulder when his wife isn't around, giving you those certain looks, and an excessive amount of spending time alone with you. Be careful with this because you wouldn't want to screw up the relationship with your friend.
-Hope that helps
-That Advice Lady
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