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should i be mad?
my friend and i are in a fight right now. she asks me to do everything for her and when i do it all i get is a thanks your my bff. and ive done like 45000000 things for her...goes from doing her xanga to myspace to downloading music for her to getting music for her. ive had it. and the other night me and my other friend got into a fight and she is my friend that iam mad at nows friend and she told her that she was mad at me so my friend said ok i blocked her so that means she blocked me on her own will. so i got all on her case and got pissed at her. is this a good reason to be mad at her or just silly and should become friends again?
-abby
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Dear Abby,
Well first of all you really shouldn't do everything, that she could probably do herself. If she trades you like with not even thinking about a second what your reaction would be, then what makes you so sure that she's just not using you for those kinds of things you know. If she is your so called "friend" she would not have done that. She would have thought of what your feelings would be either if you get hurt or get mad at her. Friends think about that stuff. THey don't just go ahead and do it just because one of her other friends are mad at you. I think thats pretty pathetic on her behalf. If you are willing to give her one more chance then you could try and become friends again and tell her how that makes you feel the next time you see her or him. She needs to know how you feel. But if you think that, that was the last straw then you should look for friends that actually care about your feelings. Well if your just mad at her because she blocked you, well just talk to her about it and ask why she did what she did.
Well I hope I helped..
Liz
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