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No Orgasm?
Alright, so I'm 16 and am still a virgin. But when my girlfriend and I engange in sexual activities, I can never have an orgasm. Hand jobs, or Blow Jobs. It just dosen't get me over the edge. Sure I can masturbate and it works fine. I don't know, I've tryed to calm down and not worry about someone walking in or something. And also, it seems like she's down there FOREVER. I really need to know the actual time. Any help? Or has this happened to anyone else?
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maybe this girl just doesnt turn you on or you could be gay. not sayin you are, its just a possibility
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Well babe, looks to me that you're girlfriend isnt doing the job she should be doing. I'm not a guy, but i'm a girl with experience. Trust me. Try experimenting with other girls. See what happens.
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Hi there, maybe your just not ready. It sounds to me though that your a wee bit tense. Get a lock on the door, make show your parents or anyone else is out, forget about the time. Just lie down and relax. Oral sex might suit you. Try that. If it does'nt work then try again another time. Go to your nearest sex clinic or Docter for some treatment you could use like special gel and what have you. Try that and let me know if it works out. Daniel.
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ok first of all DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT!i have 4 guy friends that are all 16 and are still virgins and at least you're engaging in some sort of sexual activity...they dont even do THAT much. lol.but really look on the brite side.if your girlfriend cant make you have an orgasm you still always can masturbate like you said.i might not b a guy but trust me sweetheart,i know exactly where you're coming from.even the hottest most popular guys have this problem sometimes.dont worry its not your fault.or maybe shes just not the "one" 4 you."try the sea,theres always more fish.sometimes you come out with a good bite,and sometimes bad,but in the end you always find the perfect one"
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Dear no Orgasm,
There is nothing wrong with you, some people can only get off from sex it self or by doing it yourself. Some women are the exact same way. There are also other things to take into consideration, such as does it feel good or should it be better. The situation itself (I have a friend that cannot "go" unless he is in a situation that can get him caught". You need to find out what makes you comfortable. And don't listen to the person above me for they are just giving advice to say that they did. Take your time and don't be afraid to give her direction and try new things. Sex and feeling is different for everyone.
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A) possibly gay
B) girl is ugly
C) get a watch
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