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ive been really depressed as of late. i mean its summer so why right? one thing is that for some reason all of my friends have kind of drifted away & the only person i hang w. is my bf.. ive tried to chill w. my friends but they never call back or make any comitment to try to hang. every time i do go out my curfue makes me come home early.. i feel really alone & i cant talk to anyone really & my bf doesnt understand what im going through. also i feel really ugly. i feel fat all of the time & want to change almost everything about myself .. although i probably am not that bad (17/f 5'2 120lbs.) i cant really lift my selfesteme althou i try & i feel bad tellin my bf how i feel because i dont want to b one of those gf's that whyne all the time about their weight. i no he loves me no matter what.. but i dont love my self.. what can i do to make myself feel better? what can i do to not me so alone?
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Well surround yourself with your family and people who do care about you! Forget the friends who wont make time for you, they arent worth it.
If you think your situation with depression is getting really serious, I suggest you go talk to a counsular, I know you might not like the sound of it, but they shine a whole new light on things, and its exciting to learn more about yourself. Well something I would do, is start looking at things through the positive side, not the negative, if you get involved into a situation that sounds like it could be boring, always think posotive about it, that maybe it could be fun, that changes the mood of whats going to happen! And raising your confidence will take time, its a process where you take it step by step, everytime you can accept something about yourself, helps :)
We just need to realize that no one is perfect, and that we all have imperfections, and we arent all alone in feeling this way. We are all insecure at times, and we have our moments.
We're all human beings, and we make mistakes.
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Dont be sad be happy! easier said then done i know. So why do you feel alone if you have a bf? I can tell you lifting self esteem is a difficult thing to do but with the right circumstances it can be done! So has there been anything as of late that might have made you depressed? If you tell me your feelings i wouldnt think your whining, and you shouldnt think that either because telling your feelings is NOT whining. If you dont want to feel alone try reaching out, like to me if you want. I want someone to hang with even if its only through words, feel free.
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