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thank you


Question Posted Thursday June 15 2006, 1:42 pm

ok so i have a follow up question and it's more of a story though. ok in my whole life i've been through alot of depressing stuff and about 2 years ago when i still lived in the same city as my bestfriend, i dated what i think was my first love for about 4 months and then I went out of town for the weekend and when i came back my bestfriend was dating my bf and when i asked her to break up with him because i really did like him she said NO and continued to date him for 2 months then she found a hotter boy so she dumped my first love for a guy she that was hotter then him. Now when i said i've been through a lot of depressing stuff i really have. i was abused by my older brother for about 6 years. my mom is an acholic. my dad disowned me and my brother and my sister. My sister had a car wreck 2 years ago and is now mentally retarded. But any thing else in my life that i have been depressed about is because of my bestfriend. She likes to caz drama. And lately she has changed and is not the same person i have been bestfriends with forever. I love her so much. And i already told the guy i would go out with him. So how do i help her understand that i really really want to be with him and to help her understand that since me adn fred have been talking about getting together i haven't been depressed?

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girlygirl answered Thursday June 15 2006, 1:58 pm:
Wow... it's going to be hard to do because us females are so sensitive - even when your head is telling you one thing, you can't ever control how your heart feels. You might have to make a hard choice. You are a deep thoughtful person and sounds like you realize this guy is special. Just make sure he is special and that he understands what you expect and want out of this relationship. you don't see it as a nothing fling or you wouldn't jeopardize your friendship with the gf. Good luck sweetie :)

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