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I NEED AN ANSWER ASAP IM SICK OF SMELLING LIKE SMOKE!
Hallo!
O.K. so here's the deal. My brother takes me to school each morning in his car. Usually we would just leave at the last second, and get there in time. Now, we're leaving 30 minutes earlier to pick up his friend. I was o.k. with it, but now they're starting to smoke in the car and I get to school with my clothes smelling like smoke. Normally, I would just ask him to stop, but during last summer him and his ex-girlfriend had a baby when he was sixteen, and now I just feel bad for him a lot and I would feel guilty for asking him, because it's probably his way of dealing with the baby (Not that it's the right way.) What should I do?
P.S. not only do I need advice, I give advice,too. So if you need me..uh then yeah :)
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ok, just talk to him casually about it. He might be going through some stuff, but he doesnt need to drag you into it. Besides that make sure he relizes the baby might actually want a father someday so he should quit. If he doesnt stop, threaten to ride the bus to school, which will make your parents suspicious w/o you directly ratting him out.
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You need to point out that your health is at risk and would they please wait until you have left the car before they smoke. If he is smoking around the baby, then the increase of health problems for the baby is very large too. If he is under pressure because of the baby he needs to find another outlet for his frustrations. Could you suggest that you go swimming or learn a martial art together? You obviously care a great deal for your brother and I hope that he cares enough about you to see this problem from your point of view. I wish you all the best.
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