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im in love with her but i don'y know what she thinks about m
Im from Malaysia and 13,male....There's this girl i met 5 months ago..by a first look,i was totally in love with her..Sadly,I do not know what she think about me..My friends keep telling me to express my feelings to her..But im shy,one of my friends have her email address..I tried asking him for her email..I even begged him.I know that I'm a little crazy about her but im shy to talk to her in person and want to start by messaging her or something..By the way,I'm only 13 while she's 14..I do not know what to do as i know my parents would be very very angry if they find out about this and I know that I'm abit young..But I really always think about her and sometimes shed a little bit of tears just thinking about her..What should I do??
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Well, first of all, not to discourage you, but I don't think "in love" is the correct term to describe the feelings you have for this girl. At your age, and hers, you can't really be in love. I'm not saying it's totally not possible, it's just not likely because you can't fully comprehend all the emotions, thoughts, and feelings that go along with it at that time. I do think that you probably have feelings for her like a crush and feel infatuated with her. I don't really see anything wrong with the two of you talking over email or instant messenger. I think that is a good way for you to break the ice, especially if you are shy at first. As far as you telling her how you feel, I think she will probably get the heads up that you are interested if you email her because you reslly haven't talk to her all that recently. I wouldn't tell her that youy feel as if you are in love though. But compliment her. Chances are, she'll get the hint. And as far as your parents, as long as you are upfront nad honest with them I don't see why they would be angry you are talking to a girl. :)
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