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ok so i feel very embarssed to ask this question.
but. im a lesbian.
and ive never done anything with a guy, but ive done stuff with girls.
but i was wondering...when do i consier myself not a virgin. i mean when it is a girl and guy it is obvious. but with 2 girls...its not so obvious to me...soo does any one know?
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I believe lesbian sex is actually going down on each other with hands, self, or dildo. hope i helped!!
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Most people consider "Going down on a girl" Losing your virginity as a lesbian.
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well you could consider yourself a virgin for life (assuming you never have sex with a guy) or you can consider yourself no longer a virgin after your girlfriend penetrates you. and then tehre is always the fall back definition of when you get your cherry popped.
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As has been said, it's basically up to you. Although I wouldn't reccomend getting your sex advice from a movie... During sex, when you feel like you have GIVEN yourself to your partner, like your heart and soul are entrusted to them, then you can consider your virginity gone. It's about commitment and emotions.
(P.S. Don't be afraid to discuss sexuality, especially when you're anonymous on an online advice column!)
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I think that the definition varies depending on the person. See, my advice is that you go out and rent the movie, "Chasing Amy", the movie is about a guy who falls for a beautiful, artistic, women, whos also a lesbian. And obviously that relly doesnt have to do with you, but theres this scene in the movie that is the women, whos the lesbian, and the man whos in love with her talking about your very question. They have some very good points, and the movie is really good for your question, i think it would help you more than me paraphrasing my thoughts! good luck, and you shouldnt feel embarrassed, its a complicated thing.
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ok it just really depends on you. my cuz is a lesbian and i had this talk with her. i may be wrong someone may be better at telling you this. but i would say when you played with each other and such things like that. but i feel as if it's up to you to say you've lost it. you can say you lost it lesbian wise but not guy wise. but personly if i was lesbian the moment a girl played with my in anyway fingers tounge toys i would consider my self as losing it. but like i said it's really how you feel if you have or not. hope i helped let me know.
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