|
sex or no sex?
ok, well my g/f and i have been dating off and on for about a year, and we have been together for like a total of probubly 8 months (it will be about a year in september). im a freshman and she is an 8th grader and we both love each other alot. she feels like we need to take our relationship a step farther. we both feel like we r meant to be together and we both feel like we should lose our virginity to each other. im all in for the idea, except the fact that idk wut she will do if we end up braking up. i have at least 2 weeks to make up my mind. plz help me im soo confused about wut to do.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Hi there, for starters who said that you may break up? Thats up to the pair of you. She obviously likes you. Ask yourself, do I want to loose my virginity? And if so, is this the person I want to loose my virginity to? If you answered yes to them questions, (baring in mind that you've thought about it!) Then just do it. Im confused about this situation, because you both feel as though your not meant to be together, but yet you both feel as though you should loose your virginity to each other. Get back to me about this one. Daniel.
]
I just went through this, about the same ages too. I gave everything and we ended up breaking up. I would advise waiting, because at this time you really dont know. Im not saying that you two will break up, because you seem like you really do love each other but you need to make sure you are positive that neither of you will be hurt. All actions have consequences. I sound like an old lady, but its true. Ive been through it before. If she truly loves you, she will understand if you want to wait.
]
What she would do if you break up someday should really not be what you worry about.
What would you both do should she get pregnant is the question. It is a big question too.
You always need to use protection. It isn't 100%
guaranteed though. Sex is serious business for you both.
There is a good site that has a ton of info on it. Read up on everything so you know exactly what to expect and how to be as safe as you can be. Here is the link. And I think it is great that you are taking time to learn before taking that step. And that her feelings really matter to you. :)
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
]
More Questions: |