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She wont leave me alone~
Okay this is going to be long.. I hope its okay.
So theres this girl, we had been on and off friends, and this year our freshman year, she like has no friends, so I decided Id be nice to her and be her friend, and stuff. But she cAUSED SO MUCH drama in the week i became her friend. SHE JUST CAUSED SO MUCH,
So much that I had to tell my health teeacher about it,
and she suggested that for 2 weeks that we dont talk to each other, which was fine with me, she suggested that because aleesa the girls name was, woudlnt stop talking to me, after I told her that I;ve had enough.
But its been like 3 months since the two weeks we werent supposed to talk,
and we were forbid on going to each others xanga, or talking, which again, fine with me, I had no intent with communicating with her.
But during the 2 weeks, I suddenly on my xanga tracker had this scary stalker, that went to BOTH my xangs, (i have two, one from frienids and one tahts private) and I dont nkow how they found out the other one,
but the stalker was creepy, because she said that she had seen me downtown a few times, but she didnt know me.
That didnt explain why she kept coming tomy xangas, not leaving ocmments..
so then I went under Visitor statistics, and the IP addresses of the stalker and Aleesa's xanga, wewre the same.
So obviously the stalker was her,
and she WONT LEAVE ME ALONE,
I'm going to tell my health teacher,
but if my teacher talks ot her, I know she is going to deny it because,
thats who she is.
She . aleesa, complains she doesnt have friends, makes people pity her, but when they are her friends, she suffocates them, and takes up too much of their time, invites herself into their plans.. and thats why no one like her.
And I realize she doesnt have friends, and she doesnt know how to act around them. but Id think after this happening time after time, she'd learn.
but she isnt, and i mean its almost summer.
and I dont want to deal with 3 more years of this nonsense wiht her, she has caused the most frustrating drama this whole year for me.
I'm so sorry this is long, :(
im jsut stresssing.
since exams are this week,
and I'm the same girl who asked about the friend having sex.
:( i hope you can help me :S
<3
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Oh man, I wouldn't want to put up with that either. It is no wonder she has no friends.
As for stalking you online with creepy things on your Xanga. I think I would call your ISP and ask for advice. I think you can turn her in to her ISP somehow and they can shut her down. A little harsh but she needs to learn.
I don't know anything about Xanga either but they may have something to block her with. You might contact them somehow first.
Maybe your teacher will have some more ideas too.
Sounds like she is willing to help. Maybe she can talk some sense into this girl and make her realize that her behavior is causing her not to have friends. It sounds like she may have some mental problem. I don't know if she would be dangerous or not. You might ask your health teacher her opinion on that since she knows her better than I do.
Good luck. I sure hope you find a solution that works. :)
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