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my looks & boys...
im so sick of MYSELF right now! i dont know what it is with me but i just am so sick of my looks. all the other girls no matter if they are older or younger than me are soo much prettier! i mean i think i have a nice body but my face..is not pretty at all and im a shy girl! im about 5'6 and i weigh about 120-125 with brown hair and brown eyes which i hate! but today i went to this county fair and these ugly boys would always say somethin to us never the cute ones and whenever i saw a cute guy i would always think ohhh hes never gonna look at me there are SOO many other prettier girls than me. i just get so down on myself! i dont know what to do i mean yeah i try and try to tell myself differently but i just dont see it! im jealous of like every girl. even my best friend. and there is this boy that i have always thought was cute but i dont even think he know i exist and he goes to a different school than me and he was at this fair tonight but he was around a bunch of people and everytime we walked by him he never looked i dont think at me and just i dont know its hard for me to look at other guys looking at so much prettier girls. i am also very very shy which doesnt help! what should i do? by the way i just turned 16..
thanks
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well if you really dont like the way you look now then trying going for a new look. you could maybe add some blonde highlights since you have brown hair. thats what i did because i also have brown eyes and brown hair. i think i look a lot better with them. sometimes also people think they look bad because they are frestrated or mad. maybe you should take a day and pamper yourself. ya no by giving yourself a pretty make over and painting your nails. if you dont wanna do it by yourself maybe have a sleepover and give it a theme such as spa day or something. well hope i helped. if you need any other help feel free to im me on aim at T3RRI2010 thanks and please rate high! ♥ terri
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i think i am one of the ugliest people on Earth, yet my friends tell me im pretty.
All you have to do is focus on the good, and maybe wear your hair differently, try different make ups, get new acssories
and as cliche as it is, remeber, beauty is only skin deep!
being a teen blows, we all think we are ugly, even the beautiful ones!
hope i helped! :)
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One thing you have to remember about teenage boys is that most of the time they are being driven by hormones and are not thinking with their brains.
Do you really want to have anything to do with them whilst they are still in 'shallow mode'? The worst are going to be the cute guys, as they don't need to look for attention.
Having said that, you are not going to be the worst looking person in the world, despite how you feel right now. As with 99.9% of us, there are going to be better looking people, but there are going to be a lot of worse ones as well. I firmly believe there is someone for everyone in this world, it's just a question of when you meet them and what you do with the opportunities you are given when you do.
While you are waiting to fall over that special someone there are things you could do to help yourself. The biggest and the hardest one is to believe in yourself, you are here for a purpose, you have a right to be here and you have the ability to have a postive impact on your world.
The sooner you start to trust in yourself, the sooner the shyness will start to ease and you will become more confidant. This confidance is very attractive to others, regardless of how you look. There have been some very charismatic people who, when you really look at them, are not really all that special to look at, but people still can't resist them.
In the meantime, there are things you can do to bolster your confidance, you sound like a good weight for your size and age, so no work to do there, maybe a restyle for your hair, and if you do not wear makeup how about a makeover?
All this is only cosmetic though and is for your benefit, not others. As when you feel better about yourself, it will shine from within and you will be noticed, but for who you are, not for what you look like. Inner beauty will stay with you forever, looks fade, and if that is all you have, you're not going to be left with much.
Hope that helps, and the best of luck to you.
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i dont think your ugly , really!!! but when a cute girl comes along of course also the ugly guys will look and say something cause maby they think they have a bigger chance or because they know there so ugly and no girl will look at them. and the good looking guys are used to that the girls are chasing THEM! so if you see a cute guy just look at him and smile. and maby guys are looking at you when your not looking because i never see a guy staring at me but when my mom pickes me up from school she always sees so many guys staring at me and i just dont notice. maby it's the same with you!
i hope i helped
good luck
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