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not so nice sister
my sister is always finding ways for me to get in trouble when it's not my fault. She is 16(almost 17) and i'm 14. like now, for instence, i was watching tv and my show was 8:00-8:30. and at 8:15 she comes downstairs screaming and yelling that she NEEDS to watch a baseball game that her boyfriend MIGHT be at. well my show was half over and there are 3 other tvs in our house so i told her i was watching to go watch somewhere else. so she goes outside and makes up some fake story saying that i had been watching tv for 2 hours and she had to watch it it was on a channel we don't get in any other rooms when we could get it everywhere else. so she comes back in saying i have to move. and of course, i'm not going to my shows back on so she literally JUMPS on top of me screaming and fighting and punches me and kicks me then jumps off and runs outside to tell my dad i just hit her. Now i have a bruise on each leg, probably one in between my ribs, and my back hurts when i move and i can't breathe without it hurting. so when my shows over i get up and decide to go outside to tell my dad MY side of the story and as i'm opening the door she laughs and calls back "whipped!". my dad wouldn't even listen to my story and this always happens. why can i do to have them hear my side of the story. and if i'm the one whipped.. why did she have to watch if her boyfriend MIGHT be there? and why did he just call saying he's not and wanted to see what was on SFN or w/e so she's flipping through the 999 channels we have trying to find it..
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You need to sit down and have a talk with your parents when your sister is not around. Ask them if they could see both sides of the story, and not just take her side of things. Since I am the youngest of the family, I know how a lot of things got blamed on me, but to listen to my older sister and brother you'd think they got the bad end of the stick. For one thing your sister is trying to solve problems with violence, and that's plain wrong. If all else fails, go to the police who may try to talk to your parents, because if they allow this to go on, they are to blame also.
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Hmmm,I know what you can do next time!
Just let her watch the TV you are watching and move to another one.If your dad doesn't believes you,have you ever tried running away from home?That always reveals how much they care about you.Go sleep to a close friend or something...
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Well thasts a hard to answer kind of thing i am also the youngest and I find the same things hapening to me! So your not the only one. When this thing happens say can you go somewear else? If she says no turn the other cheek and go to another room. I know how un-fair but when you do these types of things in the long run your parents will trat you better and maybe your sister even will. Now I know how unfair it seems but it does work and also try and keep your room clean and do all your chorse without having to be told and it builds your parents ideas of how good of a person you really are. Atleast this works on my parents except for my oldest brother it dosent hes 6'6" and 23 STILL living at home and I get beat up by him all the time and I get blamed for it but when you are nicer to them they are usually nicer to you for a while they might be like oh wow what on earth are yo utrying to prove and you need to say well I am trying to become a more responsible person. Hope this helps a little! Good luck!
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