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Best Friend ((fading friship))
well okay like me and my best friend nikole have been like friends since kindergarten and now im a freshman in highschool and she is too except we go to diffent ones cause i moved not far though just like 10 mins away. So till recently i would always go over her house after school or something and help her out with advice. But like people tell me that she uses me cause my mom is a reporter so we vaycay alot and go to screenings and i dont think that except that i did notice since school started that she always expected me to call her. So in the beginning of the year she started to go out with her first highschool bf and they were always on and off. The friday before valentines day they broke up for the 8th time or something so she asked me to talk to him for so i did but then like we became friends and stopped talking about her then in june she told me she missed him so long story short there back together but like for two weeks now she hasnt called but ive talked to her bf well so what i need for advice is if i should just forget about the way she treated me in the past and just call her or whatever
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This isnt really a question I can answer knowing right and wrong. But I can answer it in my opinion, I wouldnt keep her as a friend, because the way she has treated you in the past was horrible, and you didnt deserve it, and you guys are freshman now, so you're changing, and thats nothing new, but if you feel like you could still be her friend, then you need to talk to her about it, or mention how your feeling to her.
Because talking is the only way to let people know how you feel..
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Real friendship is when two people put into the relationship on an equal basis. When there are times of trouble or heartbreak, the other person is there to help out or ease the burden. It works both ways. If one person is always ringing or texting and not being called back, are they being used? It feels that way to me. Call her if you feel like it, but if it becomes so that you are doing all the running you must ask yourself if you are prepared to keep on keeping on. If she valued your friendship as much as you she would be happy to keep in touch. However, you have both started a new life in different schools and she has had an on/off boyfriend to which she has put in a lot of time so you must expect her to have less time for you. When you find yourself in the lucky position to have a boyfriend you will find that your mind is more on him than on anything else. On a final note, are you interested in her boyfriend for yourself because you were talking to him instead of her? Nothing will kill a friendship dead faster than taking a boyfriend from her. I wish you all the best.
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