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my frind hates me now that i stole her boyfrind
my friend and i and her boyfrind went to the movies the other night and we were having fun,until those to got in a fight and she hit him,he ended up having a bad cut and then me and him went to my apartment to clean it up the n we started to hookup and then we got so in to it clothes were takin off and then she walked in on us!!i am trying to apoligize to her but she wont take my calls or anything!What shall i do?
Boyfriend stealer/backstabber :'(
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Either leave the guy, and try to make it up to the friend. Or stay with the guy and forget about the friend. At this point, with what you did, you will not likely ever be able to get your old friend back and have the relationship be the same. Granted she shouldn't have hit him, but you shouldn't have "hooked up" with him either.
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wtf?! if i were her i wouldnt talk to you either!
Cleaning a cut does not automatically turn into takin off clothes unless you liked him and he liked you. just try to act like nothing happened when your around both of them at the same time.a little time needs to go by before you should actually talk to them.
~Lalagurl
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she's right not to talk to you. sure, she slapped him, and was mad at him for maybe, what, five minutes? But you don't hook up with a guy your best friend is either with or just broke up with. The truth is that she may or may not forgive you, & if she does, it'll take a bit of time. It may have been a mistake to hook up with said boy, but it could have been stopped. an innocent kiss at the spur of the moment would be no big deal. but going all the way, just because you felt like it, isn't easily forgivable. you could lose your friend if she takes things personally. & if she forgives her boyfriend, and not you, she shouldnt be your friend anyway, because he could've stopped it just as much as you could have.
there's nothign to do but apoligize, and be straight with your best friend, don't deny anything. try and get your friend back. but if she pushes herself away, let her go. like i said, you can't forgive what happened easily. let me know what happens.
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