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Why we argue soo much.
Me and my Ex dude broke up at the end of march and its the end of May. We fight and argue about the dumbest and stupidest things. I tell me that im over hima nd i don't really care bout him, but how come when he aint around im thinkin of him non-stop and when i seen him like i did today on my way home i jus remember what we use to have and he just looks so gorgeous. Why do we non-stop argue and why do i miss him when i say im over him. i dont feel the same bout him. so am i really over him or no...
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Okay, this may sound COMPLETELY crazy but maybe the reason you two are fighting so much is because you guys still care about eachother alot. You may think that you don't feel the same way about him because of the fact that you two argue constantly but maybe it is because he is the only one that you WANT to give your time and energy to fight with. From what you are saying, I don't think you are over him and I don't think he is over you either. I just think you guys think you should be over eachother because you guys fight so much but try looking at the glass half full. No matter how much you may think all this fighting is ruining your relationship, it might be trying to show you two that you love eachother and that after the disagreements, no matter how dumb they could be, you guys learn about eachother, which in turn, has you two grow even stronger together. Talk to him about it. Try not to yell and try and figure out where you both are coming from. It might just be to your liking. Good luck and let me know how it goes! - GC07
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i dont think your over it. yall probably had some disaggrements at some time but deep down inside you really have feelings for him.
try talking to him, and possibly ask him to give you another chance. you probably think about him non- stop b/c you probably didnt mean it when you said that you were over him or when u said that you dont care about him anymore but deep down inside you still have feelings for him.
i seriously hope i helped! & good luck
~lalagurl
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