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friends stealing your stuff! ok heres the deal, i went to my friends bat mitzfa with my best friends chelsea and ellen, well we all took this picture and there was this one pic where it turned out perfect and we all didnt get cut out, i grabbed it knowing they would try to snag it, ok well today i brought all the bat mitzfa pics to show my other friends and later that day i saw the picture in my purse was gone!!! ok well i thought this wasnt a big dee because i could have put it in my backpack or something so it was no biggie, but later i went up to chelsea and asked for my calculator back, and i saw the picture in her bookbag i was like "chelsea, by any chance did you maybe take that from my purse by accident?" and she said "no, ellen said she got it and then gave it to me." and i dont want to be mean, but its a really nice picture in a keychain and stuff and well i dont know what to do or say, i want the picture but, i dont want to loose any friends in the process, so can you give me advice on how to deal with this??
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Well I have been throught this problem before. I say if you are worried about it that much I give you 2 options.
1. Ask your friend if she woulf be willing to make a copy of the picture.
or
2. Just let the picture go because you rather have the friendship.
You may choose either one. If the first option doesn't work use the second. ]
I am in a choir of 35 girls-one with a stealing problem.
Whenever we want something back, we just go, "Okay, leave it somewhere with a note with my name on it, no questions asked I just want my stuff back."
Might I suggest that? ]
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