I'm 14/f...this year i think i lost all of my friends. I'm a very moody person and I'm always being dramatic about everything and it's not like i'm starving for attention because i'm not! Well I did something and now all of my friends wont talk to me because they think I'm a drama queen and that I'll just keep hurting them. I miss my friends a lot. They're all so happy and it makes me cry to know that I hurt them by just trying to talk to them. How do I fix this, or is it to late? Pls...and thanx
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Monday May 22 2006, 11:28 pm: I know how you feel. This year I lost one of my best friends because I confronted her about something she took the wrong way. I think the thing that hurt the most is that she didn't think I was worth a second chance. Show your friends you care, and let them know you understand and are willing to listen to their side of the story. Make sure you tell them how you feel as well (so they aren't ending up walking all over you). Once the feelings are all out on the table, things should get better. If they don't, give it time. Try and make new friends as well. If your old friends are true friends, things will be back to normal soon enough. "Good friends are one of life's blessings. Don't give them up without a fight." (--Harriet the Spy) Show your friends that you truly need them and care about them, and they will realize that you made a mistake and that everyone makes mistakes. If you show them you really care, they will give you a second chance. If you've truly down everything you could, and they still haven't forgiven you, let them go. You can't blame yourself for trying. If they come back, they're yours. "Friends are like stars, they come and go. But the ones that stay are the ones that glow." Hope this helps and if you need someone to talk to, you know where to find me. If you give me some more information, I'm sure I could help more. Good luck.
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