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my friend is so pretty..and im just..NOT..
hey! i went to this party last night with my best friend :] it was a party from her old school so she knew some people except it got busted by the cops because it was a hotel party and so these guys she knew picked us up (there was like 4 of them) and they were pretty cute but they ALL flirted with her and i was just sittin there like ahh? and she was drunk so she was like huh whats goin on..stop. because she has a boyfriend and this kid madeout with her and this other one wanted to too but she was like nooo! i cant. i just feel so ugly when i am around her. i mean it doesnt help that im like the most shy person ever! and that i didnt know any of them so it was kinda weird but this ALWAYS happens..they always go for my friend..even if she has a boyfriend. i just feel so ugly around her but she thinks she is ugly (yeah whatever) i just dont know what to do!! i know they didnt know me either but it was soo weird and i kinda talked to her about it was she was like ohh well and didnt really say anything! what do i do? i feel so insecure around her but its not her fault she is gorgeous! brown hair blue blue eyes and i have brown hair brown eyes..BORINGGGG! i dont know?!
what should i doo! she is my bestfriend
i will rate 5 for anyone who can try and help
<3
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first of all stop putting yourself down because i bet your not ugly. You may not want to hear this but im going to tell you anyway theres somebody for everybody and i preety sure that it wouldcome a day were they like you and not your friend that just the way life goes everyone has their own taste so dont sweat it
Jazzy**
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I think it's normal to feel insecure around your best friend, but just because all of these guys don't want to be all over you, it doesn't mean that you aren't pretty or wanted.
Besides, this was a party where all of her past friends would be there, if you knew them I'm sure you'd of fit in and had fun. Being the girl that every guy wants to make out and flirt with isn't exactly the biggest deal. It doesn't make you less attractive or less interesting than she is. Honestly, you sound like the kind of girl who doesn't get drunk at parties or drinks at all which is great but maybe you should stop going to drinking parties with your best friend.
When everyone else is drunk and you are the only one sober, it has to boring and just not fun at all. It's almost like havig to keep your friend up while she's trying to do stupid things as she's drunk.
What you need to do is have fun and be a teenage girl like your best friend is. If you have a problem with your looks that bothers you, try fixing it and if it's not fixable then learn to love it. You never know, a certain trait of your appearance could be found attractive to some people so don't sweat it and have fun.
-TheTeenGirl
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