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There is this girl...I like her...but...
14/m I was reading you answers to some questions and well I think your the one that can help me...
I know this girl Paige you can read all about her on even thought she says she older shes 14 aswell [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
and I like her alot she also has a advicenators account um 3< my love or something like that but She is just so awsome...She always gives me good advice and she is just so perfect for me... but she doesnt like me and all ready told me this but we are good friends... I talk to her almost ever day I text her all the time and I want her to mine ssssooo bad... What should I do Im so confused??? thanks for your time
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aw, you sound like sucha sweet guy. im sorry you have to go though this. and im glad you think i can help! anyway - okay i read her about me and she sounds pretty cool, but i noticed something that you didnt mention, and thats that she has a boyfriend? im not sure if you like know him, or about this? [ im guessing you do though ]. well, since she has a boyfriend- its a different situation. even if she does have feelings for you, she might be scared to tell you incase you told someone and her boyfriend found out. i understand you like her a lot, but you really cant do much since she has a boyfriend and all. you have two options, actually three but i really REALLY wouldnt reccommend one. the first is to try and stop liking her. maybe give up. i know its prolly NOT what you want to hear, but maybe she is right and you guys are better as friends. i know it may hurt, but it might just be better this way. it could take an hour and it could take months, you neevr know. you just ahve to convince yourself you dont like her. certian people are better getting over people by completly thinking they are off the face of the earth. im different though (and im sure im not alone). i like to get over someone by just thinkning of them as a friend.
the second way is to wait it out. most relationships dont last long at this age unless the people are like perfect for eachother. lets face it - teenagers are stupid. and do stupid things. and overreact. then BAM. breakup. it could be tommorrow and could be 6 months from now. you really never know. if you choose to go this route, maybe try becomming even better best friends with her. so she feels she can trust you with anything. and then if her and her boyfriend are having issus or something- she will come to you for advice. be her shoulder to cry on if she needs it. then after the breakup- you can go for her!
the 3rd way [ the way i dont reccommend ] is to break them up. it sounds horrible but like i said teenagers are stupid. and do stupid things. you could always start a rumor that he cheated on her or something. unless your friends with him, then i HIGHLYY suggest you do NOT NOT NOT do this one. and could you imagine how she would feel if she found out what you did?!
i understand that your confused. your pretty much inlove, babe. hate to break it to ya. just be strong and fight it out. dont worry - youve got people there for you. and if anything im here too. sorry if i didnt help much and i know its prolly not what you wanted to hear- but yah. good luck!
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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