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i need help.
well lately my parents have been bothering me a whole lot. and i ran away like once to my friensd house. and than i got in so much trouble. and than after that i got so tierd of my dad and ym mom. and in the car on the way home my dad said to me if i ever ran away again he would give me to a adopted family. and sometimes i just want to like leave and hurt him so bad. [i know that sounds bad but its true]. and im tierd of comming home. and i dont even want to live here anymore. and i want to leave so bad, but i can't even go to my friends house or go to the movies or anything. and my sister is 2 years older than me. and shes perfect. perfect grades and everything which isnt me. and im so tierd of being the one that gets the worst grades. well if i have a bad day and im not in a good mood when i get home its so annoying how my parents want me to be all nice when i get home. and im so tierd of being around them. do you have any advice?
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I can relate to your situation. I was the same way except the grades part. I don't really know why I felt like that but I was tired of doing the same thing everyday and just fed up with everything at home. I hated comming home, talking to my parents because I just felt negativity from them. As time passed by, I was wrong. It's normal to feel like that but you should know that your parent's just want what's best for you and they want to see you happy even if it means ruining your day once in a while. They don't want you to be perfect but think about how you're treating them. You won't talk to them, you get mad at them, and you just don't care about anything but making yourself happy. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything but it's true. Even when you have bad days and your parents ask you about it, don't just yell at them and say NOTHING. Talk to them and show a better side of you. Since you're not the one who gets all the good grades and "perfect" like your sister, you can change that. If you tried a little bit harder at school and took it seriously then you can see how good you would do. Make your parents proud and show a better attitude. I understand what you're going through but there's no reason why you should push your family away. I know you just want to be with your friends and all but your parents have a reason why they don't let you go out. It's because of your attitude and they can't trust you as much as they used to. Running away wasn't the smartest thing you did. You made a mistake and just show your parents that you learned from it. Again, running away wouldn't solve any of your problems. When you got back home, I think you realized you just had to deal with it again. I hope you know that I wasn't trying to sound rude or anything, but I'm just being honest.
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