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Best Friend's Heartbrokenn...
My best friend is kind of going through a hard time... She really loved this boy and they broke up earlier this year. She's still not over him. Sometimes, she gets really upset and cries and I comfort her and talk to her. Especially when she justt found out he was going with this girll to the 8th grade dancee. She's been upset lately. I don't mind it at all, what are best friends for, right? Butt, what can I say to her? I tell her how great she is, how any guy would be lucky to be with her, boys are dumb and he made a huge mistkae that hopefully he'll realize with in time, and a bunch of other stuff. But what else do I say?? What advice to I give? Ill rate 5's!!
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Well, I would say at this point, don't say, do. Try and get her to do things that would get her to take her mind off of things. Get a few of your friends together and go have a good time! One of my close friends just recently went through the same thing. If you keep them busy, they tend to forget faster. While afirming her self esteem is ALWAYS important, you need to not just say, but do. Hope that helps!
~Savanna
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Remind her that you're both still young. Love comes at any age, I know...but it doesn't mean it won't come again. Let her talk/vent/cry...you're doing the right thing...it may get annoying eventually, but if she needs to and she feels comfortable with you enough to do that, let her. GirlFriends are more important than boys...they don't do the break up thing :-)Breakups are rough...keep doing what you're doing...do things with her that won't remind her of him like games...or watch a hilarious movie taht won't be remind her of him. Good luck!
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