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scared that my friend will KILL ME
ok so in music today my teacher, ms. meyer was like "i dont want anyone writing on music stands its vandalism its against the law.." and blah blah blah she gave us a whole lecture. and it seemed so like important. and then i thought of how during plays backstage or during play practices, kids write all over the wall with permanent marker and everything, i mean ALL OVER. i dont know why but i reaaaally felt i needed to tell the teacher, im usually not a "tattle tale". so she's like ok i'll find out who the people who did it are and approach them. then, heres the worst part. before lunch my friend looked like she was about to cry and im like whats wrong kate? and she's like "ms. meyer is going to kill me! she just found out about how people sign on the wall and she's going to yell at me when she finds out i was one of the people who did it and give me detention!" what should i do?? help!!!
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Don't worry. First of all, your teacher probably won't tell everyone who told her. And if you can't bear the guilt, or somehow your friend Kate finds out, just say that you weren't really thinking that it would affect her, you didn't mean to get her in trouble, & then explain that the teacher sounded like it was really important so you felt guilty [even if you didn't] and you told her.
And believe it or not, detentions AREN'T that big of a deal, and they aren't the end of the world. A lot of "good" kids get them.
So if your friend finds out you told/you tell her you told, just make sure she knows you didn't mean to get her in troublee. If shes a good friend, shell understand.
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You let your friend take her punishment. She shouldn't have vandalized school property.
I don't think your teacher will tell anyone how she got the information so just offer your friend sympathy and tell her not to do that again. :)
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