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lack of attention


Question Posted Tuesday May 16 2006, 1:29 pm

I just got back to dating this girl a couple of weeks ago but she does not give me her attention, even when i believe she likes me. she never looks out for me in school, and when i ask her to come adn hang with me at my regular hang out she says she is busy or says she will come later but doesnt come. She also hardly gives me room to hang with her as she is always with her friends. I cut off with her once, when she did this same thing for some time, until I later asked her if she is still down with me and she says she is. i dont want to have to leave her again for the same reason.

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helpmebrenda answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 3:40 pm:
Hi

I can tell you with 100% certainty that when two people are truly "into" each other, they want to spend as much time as possible together.

My first impression of your problem is that she's not that interested in you. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I'm being truthful.

You deserve to be with someone who really wants to be with you. Life is too short to waste your time running after someone who doesn't want to be caught.

Move on, and find someone who will want to be with you. Once you do, you will see exactly what I'm talking about.

Good luck, and take care,

Brenda

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 3:33 pm:
Well if she doesnt have time for you, it is because shes focused more on her friends, and not ready for a relationship..
thats her way of obviously saying that her friends are more important, and since she doesnt seem to be that interested in you, I think you should just break up again, and leave it be.

you know?

<3

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angelgurl2007 answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 3:13 pm:
That girl is probably shy....or she don't like you...if she only want to hang out with you when nobody is around...man,she don't like you or she is embarass by you..no hard feelings....but trust me..cause i did the same thing..tell her straight up if you going to keep acting like a kid this relationship won't work out...trust me...it helps...okay..tell me what happen...HOLLA...

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