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Question Posted Monday May 15 2006, 10:55 pm

Okay a while ago i was a cutter and i did cut myself for a while but now i stopped that bye myself and with the help of friends.... but i mean i have changed wheni wasa cutter and im ver emotional now and im not into rap anymore and my friends think ive changed... some people even steryotype me as "emo" i mean idk what to do like i dont like the person i am become but yet i do

Do u need to go to counseling to help me with the stress im going through??OR am i okay with what i am now

Please help


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Additional info, added Monday May 15 2006, 10:57 pm:
I almost have a whole differnt veiw toward life and im almost like depressed.

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 5:19 pm:
I would go to a counsular, and get some help, because you could be slipping into a depression.
Trust me i've felt like you have, but I'm bettern ow, and life is great.

I enver thought I'd ever be able to say that either, but its amazing :)

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pinkpatchgrl answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 1:18 am:
I think you're the only one who can say if you're okay with what you are, but counseling can help you if you are going through a lot of stress.
Listening to new music doesn't change you. You change because something happneded, consiously or unconsiously, and your tastes change. You can't let your friends make you feel bad about who you are, but if you REALLY aren't happy with who you're becoming, that is something you would want to try and change.
But don't let friends guilt you to change back. If this is really who you're becoming, and you really do like who you're becoming, don't let guilt you to change back. That can just add to stress.

-Karen-

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Sherry answered Monday May 15 2006, 11:57 pm:
If you like different kinds of music, who cares? People change. You need to tell your friends that. Four years ago I was into Britney Spears and now I'm into "emo" music. The things you go through definatley has an affect on the music you listen to. I never listened to emo/indie music before this one guy totally broke my heart.

If your going through stress, go to counseling. Whats it going to hurt? It wont, it might even just help you! Maybe you should go to conseling also to prevent from trying to hurt yourself again. If your always feeling depressed, thats another reason to go too.

Hopefully I helped, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to! =)

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