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i like someone, they like me, but he won't go out with me..w
i`m 16 && live in texas. I really like this guy that i`ve known for about 2 years. He told my mom && i both that he likes me, but he won`t go out wit` me. He said that he wants a relationship;; but then again he doesn`t. we`re so much alike && i try to go along wit` it && agree that I want, but don`t want a relationship, when I do. I want to get wit` him so bad. How do I tell him boldly, but joke wise that I like him. He`s goin` to boot camp && is goin` to be in the marines...i`m ready to cope wit` the loneliness. I reallllllllly like him. omg, help! I RATTEEE!! (:
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The fact that he'll be joining the Marines changes a lot of things. Boot camp is a couple months, and then he is based in different parts of the country and usually he'll be going to different countries as well. You wont get to see him at all except for when he comes to visit for a week or so at a time.
I know this might hurt when I tell you this, but I think you should just let it go. If he doesn't want a relationship...he doesnt. Also, he's joining the marines and I dont think he wants a girlfriend back home to worry about.
I know that you really like him, but you CAN get over him. I've gotten over guys that I thought I'd die if they didnt love me. You might cry, a lot...but thats okay because thats the healing process. The best way to get over guys, from personal expeirence, find new guys! Flirt like crazy and meet new people. This is your chance to find someone that wants to be with you, love you, and take care of you!
If you need any more help, or just a person to talk to. I'm here!
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Sounds like some honesty is needed in your next meeting with him.
He has told your mum and you that he likes you, but that doesn't necessarily mean he likes you in regards to a relationship; perhaps just as a friend.
If in doubt check it out........otherwise you'll never know. Starting with a line....can we get together for a talk before you go to boot camp? That will prepare him and give him a chance to think, rather than being put on the spot.
I suspect if he wanted more, he would have acted on it by now, but I could be wrong.
Good luck.
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