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so confussed
i don't like my boyfriend i like my best friend. he lieks me to but i don;t know what to do my boy friend is obsessed with me and i wouldn't want to hurt him i care for him just not as much as my best friend. and now that i have a boyfriend my best friend is a little mad at me. even tohught my best friend had done the same thing to me before knowing i liekd him i feel so guilty doing it to him i just want him i like him so much and i dont want him to loose feelings for me, what should i do? i dont want to be easy because then thatmakes him loose feelings but should i play hard to get? pleaseeee help
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okay well i think yu should break up with your boyfriend. tell him that yu just want to be single n that yu need sum time. still be friends with him though. after yu break up with him dont go out with your best friend right away. give it a couple of weeks to show your boyfriend that he ment sumthing((if yu break up with them n go out with sumone right after that it usally shows that your over him n that you dont liek him or care for him anymore) even though yu might not liek him, yu dont want to show that to him because that will make him sad. just try to be sweet and try to explain it
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Oh my gosh!! The same thing happened to me about a year ago!! ^_^ Sisters!!
Well, your boyfriend is obsessed with you... (Funny how it goes just like my story...) Really, ask him if he really loves you or is it just an obsession? Do what you must. Tell him that you don't like him. If he asks for a reason, tell him that he's too obsessive. If he says that he'll change, tell him that you have given your heart to someone else and it's too late. (My ex-boyfriend turned to hate me for about a year before he actually found another girl...) So, don't worry. Your best friend actually understands you... I wish you the best luck! I wish I had helped you...
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Honestly? I think it would be a waste of time playing hard to get in this case. Your best friend has already made it clear that he likes you and I would say having a boyfriend has probably tortured him enough.
Bottom line here is that you like him and he likes you. You would be far better off breaking up with your boyfriend (not really fair to be with him anyway when you really like someone else more than him, however obsessed with you he may be. You can't stay with him out of pity) and pursuing a relationship with your best friend.
Just ensure that once you start going out with this guy, you take things slowly. If you move too fast, that is what will make him lose respect for you and feel less for you in the long run. Just be yourself for now. A cliche I know, but it was being yourself that made him like you so far, so it can't hurt to do that now.
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Don't worry about laying hard to get or any head games. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend, then call it off and go after your best friend. It won't make you look easy, it's just learning what guy you really want and getting him if you know he's the one you want to date.
-TheTeenGirl
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