well i have a bset friend and we have so many things to laugh about and everything! i'm the only person who thinks she's funny cause the others just think she's hyper and silly but i like her =) so yeah she's in 5th grade i'm in 7th grade and i also dont mind about that =) so yeah we only see eachother in the bus and we used to say hello in school (i'm going to a school where they teach 1-12 grade in one building) and she always saved me a seet in the bus ans she still does..ok now i'll get to the point.. lately she starts hanging around with this girl in 3th grade and only talkes to her on the bus and she saves me a seet but julie (thats the girl) can sit right next to her and then they talk and everything and julie never laughs at her jokes so i really dont get it! and now we this really sucks! and i dont wanna loose her cause she the only friend i have in this school....please help!
helpmebrenda answered Thursday May 11 2006, 6:26 pm: Hi
Just keep showing her that you are there for her, and still want to be her friend.
It's totally natural for people to seek out friends, and it's ok to have more than one friend. Just because she's friends with Julie, doesn't mean she can't still be friends with you too.
Right now Julie is the "new" friend, and maybe your friend is just caught up in the new friendship.
Give her a bit of time, and she will come around and realize that you are the friend that is there for her, and you are the one that she can act like herself around, and you accept her for her.
Take care, and it would be nice if everyone had a friend like you!
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