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my other friends are talking about my close friend should i
When i was eating lunch with my friends,my other friends in the different table were looking for my friend and they saw my close friend hanging out with their friend and i heard them saying saying"gosh!why does she always take her away?"and her friend said" i know she she always do that!!" should i tell my close friend what my other friend told her? and if i tell her is that being loyal?
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My suggestion is not to tell your close friend or any other friend what people around you are saying about them. It's not being loyal by telling them something hurtful. If she were to confront these other friends about what you heard, then you would be in the middle of something you never intended on being in.
No matter how much you try to avoid it, people will talk. You'll always hear something about someone that may be really good or really bad, but you have to decide whether you know it's true or not.
-TheTeenGirl
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hey! hmmm sounds like you guys are in middle school, right? pretty much the worst time of my life and every other girls' life as far as i know.
anyway, i don't think you should say anything to your friend because it was just stupid gossip that doesn't really need to be spread. the other girls are obviously just jealous that your friend is talking to their friend, and they needed to comment on it in order to make themselves feel better about the fact that their friend isn't stuck to them like glue.
it's of no importance, but if you go and tell your friend, then the whole thing could turn into a mess and get you in the middle of a sticky situation. you don't want to be stuck in the middle of the whole "he said she said" drama, because it will only backfire on you. so my suggestion is, don't do it... stay out of it. those girls had no reason to say that, and even if your friend knows about it, so what? she can talk to whoever she wants, and the other girl can hang out with whoever she wants as well.
my little sister is in middle school and i always tell her one thing... if there is drama, stay out of it. if you hear gossip, don't repeat it, because then people will see you in a bad light and you could lose good friends. just stay out of it all... you will be much happier!! :) good luck!
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