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What should I tell my friend about her boyfriend?


Question Posted Wednesday May 10 2006, 8:57 am

i met this guy friday. i told him my boyfriend broke up with me. he said i broke up with my girlfriend. i said are you lookin for that special someone. he said yes. i said your talkin to her right now. he invited me and my friend to his house,just to hang out. me and my friend had to leave,so he gave me a hug and a kiss on the lips. i caught with him at the mall and we went outside and he started making out with me like twice. i saw him monday. i was gonna give him a hug but he said my "girl" is right there. so he had a girlfriend but he made out with me. i'm not sure on what to say to her. i try to talk to him alone about this,but he's never alone. please help.

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TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday May 10 2006, 2:09 pm:
So basically this guy lied to you by saying he was broken up with his girlfriend when he really wasn't.

That's the way I understand it and hopefully I understand it correctly. Well, you may really like this guy, but he's not the guy for you or any other girl that deserves the truth.

You need to just tell this guy that you need to say something to him in private or write in a note that you don't want anything more than a friend with him because basically he used you and lied. As for what to say to his girlfriend, tell her the way you understand it, you were told that he was not seeing anyone.

Let's say that I didn't understand it correctly and you are saying that after he made out with you he got a new girlfriend. That would still be wrong because that would make him someone who uses people. So no matter when he got this girlfriend, it's wrong to make out with a girl while or after getting a girlfriend.

I hope this helped you understand that this guy honestly isn't worth your trust.

-TheTeenGirl

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