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i dont know what to do...
thank you soooooooooo much for the answer.. we already exchanged our numbers and i have really no guts to tell him this in person.. so i will just tell him through text message.. but how would i tell him? what am i going to say without turning into embarassment? i really want to tell him because maybe i'll regret it if i won't.. but i'm also scared to lose his friendship, he's very sweet and nice guy.. sometimes i want to think that he like me too but i just think that he's just really nice that you will misunderstood that he likes you. thank you soo much....
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I understand that you are scared of loosing his friendship, I went through a very simmilar situation myself. I am not sure if telling him in a text message is the best way. If you are really not able to do it in person, you might consider doing it over the phone. Either way, I don't think you should start a conversation by telling him. I think you should try to work it into the conversation. You might consider leading the conversation in that direction by asking about his love life etc. You could also tell him when there is a break in the conversation. You don't have to tell him in a way that will make it really akward. You can just say something like "Listen, [name], I have had romantic feelings toward you lately and I thought that you deserved to know." or "I like you and I thought it was only fair that you know". Tell him in a calm and put-together manner. Try not to look too nervous. If he doesn't return the feelings then just let him know that its no big deal and you can always get over it. This will make him feel like you can still be friends. If he does return the feelings, then you can decide what you are going to do together.
Although it may seem very scary, you will feel better after you have done it. It doesn't mean that you can't be friends afterwards. I told my guy friend that I had feelings for him and we are still friends, no akwardness or anything. I hope that I helped you. Good Luck and, as always, if you have any other questions just ask.
Love, Rainbow
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