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i need advice reeeeeely badly
Well you see i wanted friends with benifits with this one girl (my neighbor) and i have a girlfriend one night me and my neighbor decide to do it for the lest time becuz i had a girlfriend so i said that this was the last time and we did it i felt reeeeeeeeeely guilt, next thing i know she gets pulled out of skool early and she tells me on the fone that shes at the hospital becuz she thinks shes pregnant and now a rumor is going around skool saying i did it with her and now ve been denying it and telling every one that t isn't true and that she made all of that up. bue now i think she might be pregant. WHAT DO I DO ? i'm only in 8th grade and shes ion 7th. please help me by telling me what to do .
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I can't tell you what to do, but I can give you suggestions.
Well, I would say the first thing to do is to ask to meet with your neighbor girl and talk to her in private. Some girls--in fact many girls say they are pregnant as a game to get you and keep you in their life.
So in this case, if you are not sure, you need to ask for proof. Ask her to take a home pregnancy test and show you the results or ask to see a paper from the hospital, or go to a Dr appointment with her and speak with the Dr. If she cannot give you the proof, move on with your life and forget that you ever met this girl.
If in fact she is pregnant by you, you have no other choice but to step up to the plate and do the right thing. Admit that it is true, and tell your girlfriend about it. Your girlfriend may decide to leave you, but that's a chance you have to take.
Now both of you are obviously way to young to raise a child, so with the help of your parents you are going to have to make some decisions about the baby and what to do next.
You will continue to feel guilty until you are able to face and admit to the truth.
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