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what should i do now?
i am 15/f, and i have had a crush on a guy friend of mine for a few months now. We talk all the time, in our group we talk together the most and lately i feel like there is more. For instance, on the way back from school trips on the bus i have put my head on his shoulder and he seemed to like it, when i have put my head on his shoulder while watching a movie with some other friends they told me that they saw him leaning into it. A few other things like when we were getting ready for dinner he would help me out, and he sat next to me and stayed in a pretty cold hot tub with some other couples, which would be kinda awkward unless he liked me right? idk, at any rate he is kinda shy when it comes to romantic stuff and if you could tell me if he likes me, and if he does what should i do now to make him feel more comfortable to initiate things, like arm around the shoulder holding hands type stuff? by the way his birthday is coming up in a couple weeks, should i do something then?
thanks
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It does sound as though the feeling is mutual. Most people (especially guys) don't treat normal friends that way.
I would probably wait until after his birthday, to be on the safe side. A guy once asked me out on his 15th birthday and I had to turn him down and it really was awful. Obviously, I'm not saying that he will tun you down. Judging by the way he has been acting, I would say he's quite likely to say yes. However, I wouldn't like to say he definitely likes you and I think it's best to wait until after this event has passed.
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Well if you like being around him and he makes you happy and he makes you laugh.When your on the phone with him one night laughing ask him if he has girlfriend then after a while he gonna sit quietly or ask you why and just say because I wanna know and if he says no then say do you like me and he's gonna ask you why or in what way and listen to him then say because I like you and I've always liked you and I wanna be more then just your friend I wanna be closer to you and make you happy and smile the same way you make me feel when i'm around you so do you think we can take this further and i'm tellin you he won't be disappointed he'll just be suprised and if he can come over to your house sittin down talking you bring up the subject and ask him and if everything work out ,then maybe your day would end great with a hug and a kiss maybe if you really tell him how you feel deep down inside your heart no matter how scared you are just do it ,it will make things easier and if ya'll do get together from what you 've experienced you'll be able to talk about anything to each other afterwards so good luck .It worked for me 2 and everything turned out great.
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Well you can never tell if a guy likes you, the only way to know, is to ask.
And i know asking would be risking feelings, but if you are really curoius ask him. & ifyou like him, tell him.
Its best to just be flat out on these things.
And if you want to show him you care, yes do something for his birthday.
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Yeah I would say he likes you. He seems to be doing things just to spend time with you, such as helping you get ready for dinner and staying in the cold tub. Also, the whole head-on-shoulder thing, if he wasn't interested he would have either told you to stop or moved away, but he didn't he leaned into it. Ergo, I am sure he is interested in you.
His birthday is the perfect opportunity for you. It gives you an excuse to ask him to go out somewhere with you without the whole awkard "like on a date?" thing. Go out just the two of you, to somewhere where you have the chance to get closer to him, eg. the cliche:the cinema. Preferably a scary movie as this means in a moment of 'terror' you could take his hand or huddle closer into him. Plus the hormones released when we get scared are actually what attract us to the opposite sex. So GET SCARED! Fingers crossed you'll end up closer than you have ever been and as the movie ends, you could bring up the subject of being more gf/bf like. Then see where it goes from there.
Good luck hunni, go get him!!
Sapphire Lily xxx
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