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boyfriend trouble please help
mmk hi everyone im 14/f ive had a bf for about 3 1/2 months and i still really like him but he likes hanging out at my house alll the time. like every weekend practically he will ask me if we could get together. at first it was ok but now i feel really really weird having him around my parents and stuff and its akward because i never know what to do when hes over. with me and my friends its usually hang out in my room, listen to music online stuff but my parents make sure to keep me in sight. i dont no if i should tell him that i dont think its a good idea we should hang out outside of school or idn if im just being stupid and selfish. what should i do ill rate high thanks in advance
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Well, the truth is that your parents are suppose to monitor you and your boyfriend. It's not something stupid they are doing to make you feel uncomfortable.
I really don't know exactly what's bothering you, but try thinking about these possibilities:
-You feel bored doing the same thing every weekend
-You don't want to be at your house every weekend, you want to go to his or a friend's house to hangout instead
-You don't like your parents watching you
-You aren't really ready to have a boyfriend, so you feel pressured to do something with him or act a certain way around him because your parents ar around
Whatever these options are, try pinpointing what's making this akward for you and find a way to fix it. If you want to go to his house and see his family, ask him to arrange that instead. If you feel like hanging out with him is too much for you, then tell him that you are busy this weekend with your friend's or that you really need a weekend to yourself because that could be it. Sometimes it's just annoying to have people over every weekend and need time to think and time to yourself. You don't have to tell him that you are annoyed of him, because you probably aren't. Everyone needs room to breathe in a relationship.
-TheTeenGirl
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