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my friend in over protective
hi, i have a wide circle of friends a mixture of both boys and girl. but some of them dont get along together so somedays i spend time with one group(a) and others the other group(b). last week i went out shopping with group a and one of my bff in group b found out. she started having a go at me for ignoring her, (but infact the reason i went shopping with group a than group b was because she was ignoring me and spending loads of time with her bf)and not inviting her but i explained to her the problem and she just wont except that i have other friends apart from her. what shall i do???
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I think that you should let your friend know that you do love spending time with her, but you are put in a situation where you have to split your time with other friends and that you would invite her, but apparently her group isn't getting along with the one you hung out with.
If you've already explained this, then you'll just have to let her be angry until she understands or just gets over the fact that nobody is getting along. I know you might really like this best friend, but if she can't be ok with you having other friends, then it's going to be hard to continue a friendship with her. It isn't your fault that you are caught in the middle of this madness and have to split your time. And she has to understand this.
The next time that a friend ignores you or leaves you out, don't try to get revenge on her. That makes the situation worse and then she'll just do it right back and then you two will be at a revenge war instead of good friends. If you have anymore questions concerning this situation, please write back, thank you.
-TheTeenGirl
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