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6 year crush
So I've liked this guy Joseph since 5th grade. He confessed his feelings and asked me out in 7th grade, but I rejected him, i dont know why. Last year i talked to him a lot and everyone said he liked me. This year, i barely talk to him anymore so i donno if he still likes me. Im now going into 11th grade, and i STILL like him, but im afraid to tell him because im afraid of what my friends will think and that he doesnt like me anymore. how do i find out if he likes me, and hint to him that i like him, before the school year ends?
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i'm kind of in the same situation as you. i started liking this guy in 6th grade, 7th grade he asked me out and i said no, now i'm in 8th grade and still like him and regret saying now soo much.
but for you, it's been a longer time period.
anyway, i think you should just tell him, it doesn't matter what your friends will think. if you don't say anything to him about how you feel about him, things aren't gonna change. and you'd go on feeling the way you do now.
hope i helped, good luck! :)
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If you want to do this before the school year ends then why wait and worry about hinting? He took a huge step in telling you the way he felt about you and that's very admirable. I reckon you should do the same thing. I know it's embarrassing and there's always the risk of being rejected but you know what? There are going to be a million times where you will have to put your heart on the line and you may as well start now because if he doesn't get hints you throw his way, you might never know how he feels.
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If you like him so much, you shouldn't care about what your friends think. It shouldn't even matter.
The best way to find out is just talk to him. If he doesn't like you, move on. It was worth a shot..but if he does, then you too can decide what to do from there. Or ask him to go somewhere with you, like to eat or something and get him to open up around you a little and if he doesn't say anything about liking you, you should! You'll never know if you don't try..good luck!
♥ Evy
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i have the exact problem like i like this guy but nobody else likes him like none of my friends but what you have to do is
even if you like the guy your friends aren't gonna think anything about actually you are known as "cooler" with a boyfriend
like my friend maranda she likes this gut with a head like a pine apple and evry body thinks that he is "Ugly" but she still had friends and nobody thought as her as different.
well what i see is that you like him and yall talked alot but now you dont go up to him and be like hey whats up i haven't talked to you in a long time what have you been doing.... bring up stuff such as stuff that happens in your life .you have to build a new relationship with him pretty soon if you build a big relationship he will pretty soon start liking you again and MABY ask you out again or you could show him hints on that you LIKE him you never know what he thinks about you so you got to open up let him know how you feel even though it's not easy but i am sure that he feels the same way about you ..
Hope my advice help and best wishes with you and him
~Brittany~
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The best way to find out is to personally ask him.
And what do you mean by, "but im afraid to tell him because im afraid of what my friends will think"
If you really like the guy, is the above really an issue at all. Who's the one going out with him anyway?
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