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My sister


Question Posted Wednesday April 26 2006, 6:06 pm

Alison marie- it's triple G, I swear this is the last time I'll write today, CUZ I have hw to do. But do, you think like, my family and I are too harsh on eachother? I mean, my dad is harsh on my mom because he makes her do everything I don't do, my mom is harsh on me becuase she never believes me, i'm harsh on my sis becase I expect her to be a good little sister, smart, and straight too, and my whole family is harsh on me because their hard to talk to and never listen.

Anyway you feel, you can say, I won't get offended.


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alisonmarie answered Thursday April 27 2006, 8:20 am:
Everyone in your family should be able to be who they are - neatnick, lesbian, trustworthy, etc. If people are placing unfair expectations on others, then that could cause problems.

And if those unfair expectations are delivered by yelling, constricting development, or being emotionally hurtful - then yes, that sounds a little harsh.

The only person you can be responsible for, though, is you. This means that you can carefully think about how you respond to other people's demands, as well as what demands you are placing on others.

Sometimes all it takes to change an entire family's dynamics is for one person to change.

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