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My Nose...
heyy guys well im 16/f if you needed to know that and not to sound conceited or anything but everyone always tells me how pretty/gorgeous i am! well my friends and all the girls. except no guys have called me beautful/hott/cute or anything and then i am SOOO self-concsious of my nose..its like sooo big! and i dont know what to do..i know there isnt much to dobecause i dont want to get plastic surgery or anything! whenever i take pictures thats all i see--my nose and its so embarassing! also my smile..i hate it my mouth is SOO small so my smile is all messed up and you cant even see much of my teeth i dont know..im just so jealous of many girls lately..and i know thats normal but i just dont know what to do anymore :
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The truth of the matter is when other people look at you (even they are people worth associating with) they don't say "Look at her nose! It is sooo big!". They see you inside. When your friends look at you they probably say "there's one funny, smart, awesome girl who I can tell anything to." Nobody is perfect and everyone has something they hate about themselves. You just have to learn to focus of the positive things.
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Guys are just as shy as you are when they want to tell you how attractive you are. Don't be so insecure, I hate my nose but I'm coping with it. Don't be jealous of all of the girls that you see at school, you'll be even harder on yourself. Here's a tip that my cousin taught me.
Every day, say 3 things that you like about yourself in the mirror when you're waking up, getting ready to go to school, ect. It will boost your self esteem and make you proud of who you are.
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Well, let me put it to you this way. The girls that you've been jealous of, they may seem like they have it all, but they do have many insecurities just like you do.
Without having a little insecurity about ourselves, we wouldn't love our good traits and features as much as we do. Without feeling pain or hurt, we wouldn't feel as great when we feel pleasure. Most of the time when girls have something they hate about themselves, it's not as bad as they make it out to be. It's usually something small, and if it isn't, then it's something you will likely learn to love later on.
Now, I know you may be thinking that you'll never learn to love your smile or your nose, but I'm sure that there was a time when a friend had an insecurity and you thought that it was ridiculous and small or that it's a good thing. When you said that a lot of your friends and other girls always tell you how pretty you are, maybe they think those insecurities you have are actually pretty great on you. Your smile and your nose is part of what makes you yourself. Just remember that all insecurities are usually not a big deal and everyone has them.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just learn to live with it..if people don't like you for your nose, or your smile then they aren't worth it! It's honestly probably not even that bad. Like you said you're self-concious, so you might be making it a bigger deal than it really is. Don't waste your time worrying about it and you'll be alot happier!
♥ Evy
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