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Okay...so there's this guy...
Okay, I see this guy once a week, (and I enjoy it :) but I always get so nervous because it always seems like he's always watching me, and so I try to look calm & cool, but I always mess up around him, tripping, or whatever. My face gets all hot and everything, and I hate it! Is there even anything I could do to prevent feeling like this around him?
Thanks a lot in advance.
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I know you're looking for a subtle way to approach this guy, but honestly, the best way for you to avoid repetitive humiliation is to just go up to him and start talking. He won't be expecting it, and it will immediately give you the upper hand. Meaning, he'll feel less confident because you appraoched him first, and will more likely make an idiot out of himself before you do. Warning: Be careful with this, don't come on too strong. Keep it short, casual and fun. Through friendly conversation, you might find out that he's a complete ahole, and will be glad you didn't allow yourself to waste anymore time being nervous around him.
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haha dont worry hun thats pretty much my life right there. what i do, i laugh it off. if i trip, i exagerate it and laugh. usually hell laugh along. you might get teased about it but hey thats also known as flirting! just laugh and enjoy yourself and hell see confidence and that your a fun person,
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Remember that he is a human being like you! We all look stupid sometimes, but being able to laugh it off is one of the coolest things you could possibly do. You will come off as looking at ease with yourself and confident, with a great sense of humour.
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