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This Guy..Well he has a girlfriend..and i have feelings for


Question Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 8:42 pm

Heyy! :]
well i sorta have a problem..and i feel super bad about it..
well you see my cousin hangs out with some pretty cute people..and there is this kid named ben..well she is like he is the hottest kid on this planet! and i was like nahhh you always say that about people! but then i saw him one time with her and i was like holy shit lol he is pretty hott! and well we saw him a couple more times after that but this weekend me my cousin my cousins other friend and this ben kid and his girlfriend :[ and this other kid named nick hungout! well i think im starting to like ben..or i dont know if its just that im really attracted to him! i feel super bad i dont know why..i dont know what to do because he has a girlfriend and she is sooo nice! i just met her this weekend and now everytime me my cousin and ben hangout his girlfriend katie is most likely gonna be there. i know im not gonna try to break them up--they have been goin out for like 5 months now i guess! i just dont know what to do..i cant make these feelings go away but i dont want to stop hanging out with him you know? its just i find it weird..i hardly ever have feelings for someone and now i doo..and he has a girlfriend. i DOUBT like that they will ever break up. i just dont know what to do i have badluck with guys..and my cousins friend was flirtin with him when we were all hangin out and his girlfriend was gettin mad (obviously) haha but yeahh! soo i have such an urge to try and get his attention but i know that wont ever happen because he has a girlfriend! i just dont know anymore..! and when i saw them kissin and like huggin i was like goddddd lol this sucks! what do you think i should do? i cant tell him or his girlfriend or my cousin--she will tell. and its kinda weird since i just met him!!

well i'll rate 5 if anyone can help me with this!
thank you soo much
<3


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Additional info, added Sunday April 23 2006, 9:15 pm:
by the way im a 16/f! lol if that helps anything.

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linnie answered Wednesday April 26 2006, 10:56 am:
hey. friendship can mean a lot, so you should become friends with this guy. wait it out and he might turn around. hope this helps.

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INeedAdvice022 answered Sunday April 23 2006, 11:06 pm:
I also agree make really good friends with him try to look around for other people too..you never no right? just hang out with them and try not to think about it ask your cousin if she nows anyone else whos hot and sweet! lol

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x0_maggie answered Sunday April 23 2006, 9:44 pm:
First off...don't feel bad about it! Everyone likes a hott guy! xD But I really think to just befriend him for now. Become his friend! First, you'll get to know him a lot better and then you'll see if you still like him. Find something in common to do and stuff like that. Then..just be patient. You can only let the future unfold and that's all. Flirt a bit..but don't overdo it. Alright...hope I was of some help!

-Love-
Maggie

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