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Will I ever find someone?
I just turned 16.
I am probably one of the most inexperienced people you know...
THe farthest i have gone is holding hands... with a FRIEND
I recently got my first boyfriend and we were "together" for 3 days... haha
but i really want to meet someone for REAL...
I see my best guy friend and how happy his girlfriend is and i just wish that i could feel that for once...
Im not desperate or anything i just wish that I could feel love from someone...
Ive lived almost 16 years as a single girl and i just wish for once I could have a reason to go to school other than my friends.
I am like one of the only people in my group that is single... and it hurts...
it makes me feel like im not worth loving.
My question is... do you have any advice on what guys like in a girl or a reason to give up or go on? Thanks so much
*madd*
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truthfully.. your 16 years old and you have so many more things to experience in life. i wouldnt be to worried about it becuase in the end..the guy you date wont probably be the "one" theres someone out there for everyone..
you just have to find them.
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You're only 16. You've got so much to learn, so much to do, so much to experience.
Don't worry about getting someone in your life. The only reason why you've not found someone you really want to be with is probably you're not ready.
Yes, you might say, "but i'm 16!!". Wisdom does come with age however, you'll probably want to build up emotionally. Getting into a relationship does a lot with emotions.
To tell you the truth, not every happy couple you see is really happy. (not refering to you best friend though). There are a lot of things other people wouldn't know about a relationship. It is after all between the both of them. They might have a lot of problems but are still happy together.
Don't and NEVER feel like you're worth nothing. Your self worth is set by yourself. You may be single but you are good in other things. If you feel you don't have any now, search for it. Trust me, its there. Take those giving advice on this site for example, we are good at it. And we can help others. That's part of our self worth.
Fact is, you still have a long way to go in life. Take your time and take it one step at a time.
Good luck!!
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Hey, I was in the same position you are a little over a year ago. I had the closest group of friends ever. We all got along and it seemed that everyone was going out with someone. When me and this guy started talking he was seeing someone else, but that was going down the drain quite quickly. Well we talked all night on Halloween. We went out trick-or-treating. We couldn't stop talking. It was great.
I found that It is best to be able to talk to a guy without freezing up or not being able to think of anything to say. Trust me its awkward when there is an awkward silence. (They creep me out.)
If you have a special someone in mind start to talk to him with light topics. You don't want to delve in too deep at first. Try these to begin:school, music, movies. Next time you two talk try family and friends and sports. If he is a sporty person, go to one of his games or meets and then tell him next time good job and keep the conversation going after that.
Once you two have become close friends try topics such as love, relationships, and the future. When you leave him, if he drops you off at home or you are leaving school, give him a hug. Leave little hints when you talk to him about everyday things about how you want someone (don't sound desperate though, it scares/creeps them out.)
any other questions feel free to ask me.
Rachel
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