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i still like him
i like this boy in my gym class we USTE to be very good buds..We ALMOST dated before .. then he uste to be a real jerk.. so i quit talking to him for about month. i decided to start talking to him and i like him again.. Should I?
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Yea its fine to like him again. If he starts to be a jerk again then dont talk to him anymore. Tell him that you kind of like him and if hes still a jerk and you guys go out then let him know that hes being a jerk and you dont like it. Try talking to him and letting him know hes being a jerk but don't say it to mean. Just give it some time and see how it works out.
♥ jackie
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Yeah it's fine to talk to him again. If you like him then why would't you? You have to ask yourself how bad of a jerk he was. What did he do and why do you think he did it and why would you stop talking to him for doing it? You should forgive him becuase if you like him, ignoring him won't help.
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If you feel that you can work things out with him again, then I see no reason why you shouldn't try again.
Lots of guys around your age will be jerks at times, but it's your job to show them that if they act like a jerk toward you, then you aren't sticking around to be treated like that.
-TheTeenGirl
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hey, you cant control who you like. but if hes a real jerk to you then i suggest that you dont get to involved and caught up in him. if hes better now, then i dont see a problem in liking him! cait♥ = ].
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Its difficult to say really. In my opinion, any guy that treats you bad at any time is not worth your time ever again but there may be a reason behind why he was acting like a jerk. Was he having a hard time at home maybe or stressed out about exams? If it was because something like this, then he is redeemable. But don't leave it, speak to him about it and let him know that he was bang out of order and that it hurt that he treated you that way, even if he was under pressure elsewhere he shouldn't have taken it out on you. If he is decent enough and cares about you like a friend should, he will apologise. If he does, then sure like him as long as you stamp bad treatment out the second it starts if he ever does it again.
If he was simply being a jerk because he felt like it, then he is not worth it. You deserve someone who respects you and treats you the way you treat them all the time, not just when they want to. Ditch him and find someone that truly deserves to have you! Because in the end, he would just hurt you no matter how nice he is being at the moment.
Good luck, hope it turns out it was the first option
Sapphire Lily xxx
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