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Who should I believe?
Okay guys, heres the delimma or whatever.. My friend said that the guy I have liked for a while said he won't go out with me or any other girl at my school because he can get hotter girls elsewhere, the guy I liked said he didn't, but hasn't talked to me in person since I've found that out. The friend who told me is confident the guy I like said that.. he says he heard the guy I like say it. BUT the guy I like, well he just doesn't seem the superficail/shallow type. BUT then again my friend has never lied to hurt me, he hates to see me all emo and stuff.. So my question is who should I believe-the cutie pie I like, or the brother like friend?
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you should always trust your friends over the guys you like, no matter how hott or how sweet they look and seem
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It sounds like this guy is a jerk, even though he may be hot. If he doesn't think any of the girls in your school are good enough, that means he thinks you aren't good enough, so why would you want to go out with him. On the other hand, you might want to consider if your brother like friend might have any ulterior motives--does he hate this guy, maybe he has a crush on you (I know that sounds like a teen movie plot, but you never know). Or maybe this hot guy is has some issues going on-like parents who won't let hhim date, self-esteem issues (this can make some people turn into jerks to cover it up), or maybe he is gay and just trying to cover up.
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Guys are shallow. It doesn't matter what they say. If they could have a "hot" girl, over an "average" girl, of course they're going to go for the "hot" one. Most girls would do the same thing.
On the other hand, friends are supposed to be the ones you trust. I'd believe my friend of some guy that I liked, anyday.
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