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Matt is love. I appologize for the length
I should start off with why I am asking you this question and not anyone else. Reason - you don't seem fake! By the way I would like to talk to you some time so add me on msn or aim please. iF_0nlii@msn.com is my msn email, and for aim my screen name is: Luke is elf.
Ok, well here is my problem. There is this kid Matt in my school, and I like him a whole lot. Probably the only girl at school that does like him but I do. People always ask me what I see him and I can't answer that question but I see something and I know what but I just can't explain it. I just like him. Sue me. Matt is really nice to me when me and him are talking alone, like yesterday we ran the mile in school for P.E. and he ran with me the whole time, and we talked alot but I didn't tell him anything about liking him because I had asked him before if he liked me and he said no so I dropped it but didn't move on. When Matt is around his friends he acts really different. He is rude and really obnoxious and it makes me really mad because he is such a nice guy without them. Matt told me one time when I asked him if he liked me or not that he doesn't but that is not what most people who know I like him say. In history class he sits behind me and pokes me and always tries to get my attention. I must admit I like it but I hate being confused about him liking me or not. I have a great boyfriend now and he makes me really happy. I am kind of getting over Matt, or trying to anyway but it is not working. My boyfriend knows I like Matt because I am honest with him and I told him. My question is to you, what should I do about Matt?
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Of course I'll add you on MSN. It may take awhile, because my MSN is being really stupid lately. But, I'll surely get around to it :]
I think you should decide who you really want; your current boyfriend or Matt. You have to pick someone. This isn't fair to your boyfriend, since you're crushing on this Matt guy, y'know? I'm sure he's pretty hurt by this; wouldn't you be if you were him? You have to think about his feelings, too. If you really like this Matt boy more then your boyfriend, I suggest breaking up with him. The longer you're with your boyfriend and liking Matt, the longer you're hurting the guy you're with. So, that's something you need to do. You need to find out who you like more. If its worth breaking up with your boyfriend for Matt. If Matt even truly likes you.
It seems like Matt is a really sweet guy, however, he isn't while friends are around. A lot of guys are like this. They want to act like the 'big cool, not give a care in the world for this girl' type of guy. That's just how some are. Sad, but true. I think you should try to find out if Matt likes you. Ask around. Ask his friends. Better yet, ask him, again. What could one more time do? Go for it. If he says no, then just stay with your boyfriend. If he says yes, put a lot of thought into it. Don't just break up with your boyfriend because he likes you. Actually think this through. Because Matt and you could end up breaking up and you'll realize it was a big mistake dumping your current boyfriend. So, make sure you do a lot of thinking.
My suggestion to all this, would be to make a pro and con about both boys. See which guy has more good things about him. It'll help you out with your decision. Good luck, sweetie. ♥
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